There are many images to be taken from the story of Bethlehem, but one seems particularly appropriate in the social, political and economic climate today. Standing before the manger of the Christ Child were poor, simple Shepherds as well as wealthy, powerful kings. Each brought gifts. The kings brought gold and myrrh and frankincense, precious items they could easily afford, while the shepherds brought only what they could afford, an adoring presence, and the warmth of their flocks. Yet each had an integral part in celebrating the newborn child as the hope of the world.

Fast forward to Black Friday, 2008. Impatient shoppers in the thousands stand in front of a Walmart store and begin a stampede as the doors open, killing a security guard. How did we move so far away from the meaning of Christmas and the message of Bethlehem? It’s time we all take it back within our own hearts, our own families and our own communities. And that change should begin now, before Black Friday, 2009. Major retailers recognize the financial limits of families today and have dramatically reduced prices. Yet, consumers, some with limited incomes or without jobs, continue to face difficult times. Even items at dramatically discounted prices are still out of the reach of many.

What then of Christmas? Revisit the story of Bethlehem, the manger, the kings and the shepherds. Celebrate it within your means. And, whether that includes going out and buying expensive presents or simply sharing a warm meal with family and friends, let the hope of the holidays fill your heart, your home and your community. Reach out, do what you can for others. Help fill a food pantry, give some time to a local soup kitchen, adopt a needy family or spread some cheer by Christmas Caroling. Whatever you do, remember that the joy and peace and true meaning of Christmas is not in how much you spend but in how much of yourself you give to others.